Wednesday, December 21, 2011

Notes to self: Drop Your Mask and Be Authentic

Are you hiding from your Master? Too many submissives try to conceal their flaws and present a polished façade. Or they try to behave like they think "great" submissives do. When you try to be someone else, it erodes trust and effectiveness and causes people to question your true identity.
 So drop the mask and be who you really are. This can enhance your relationship, foster trust, and create better exploration outcomes. Be honest about your imperfections and ask your Master and peers (mentors) to help you determine how to bring more of your authentic self to surface. 

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