Shake the Sugar Tree: Speak No Ego and Be No Ego

To be more service-oriented, as a slave or part of a polyamorous family, we need to dump any self-importance we may have built up and remember that our value to our Master and family comes from the good things we make happen for them. We need to get out of the way of ourselves.

The upside is that we'll likely gain knowledge of more, receive more, and have more fun (long-run thinking here... short-term too, really).

Here's how to Speak No Ego and Be No Ego...

• Be humble.   Understand you are a (small) part of this world you are living in. Service and patience should be your top priorities.
• Be teachable.   Focus on what you can learn, rather than what you know. Remember that you can always learn from others – your sister slaves and family can always teach you from their experiences too.
• Listen more.   Make every effort to truly understand what others are saying (beyond just words). Allow a gap of silence before responding. Ask respectful questions (and listen, again).
• Appreciate people.   Enjoy others' contributions. Don't squelch ideas or defend territory. Encourage more.
• Relax.   Let go of the need to be right or win every time.

Always remember, especially if you are a slave in a polyamorous home, put your family first in your serving your Master and you will always please Him in so many areas.

Shaking the Sugar Tree,

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